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Ongar Hookups: Ongar Women Want to Meet

Low-key casual sex in Ongar, with three bigger towns a short drive away.

Ongar hookups between Epping, Harlow and Brentwood

Fewer than 4,000 people live in Ongar's built-up area, so the town alone won't keep your inbox busy.

Its full name is Chipping Ongar, a market town in the Epping Forest district of Essex, though the Royal Mail sticks to plain Ongar and so do we. What it lacks in size it makes up for in position. Epping is six miles to the west, Harlow seven to the north-west and Brentwood seven to the south-east, so three larger towns sit within easy reach of a quiet base.

In a place this small you may prefer the first drink to happen a few miles away, and Ongar makes that easy. Chat from home, meet on someone else's patch, and keep your own town for when you know you like each other.

Ongar's dating pool runs from Harlow to Hackney

Draw 25 miles around Ongar and you take in a big slice of London, Hackney and Bromley among it, along with Harlow, Hoddesdon and London Colney, and Gravesend and Southend-on-Sea too. Women are close to four in ten of our members in that circle, comfortably more than the three in ten across the whole site. Seven in ten are under 35, roughly a third each in the 18 to 24 and 25 to 34 brackets, while the over-45s come to roughly one in ten. If you're in your twenties or early thirties, you're in good company here.

18 to 2434%
25 to 3436%
35 to 4418%
45 to 547%
55 and over4%

Ages of our members within 25 miles of Ongar, today.

Plan your Ongar meet-up in Epping or Brentwood

  1. Pick the town in the middle. Epping is under six miles from Ongar and Brentwood about six and a half, so wherever your match lives, one of them is likely to be roughly halfway. Harlow, at seven and a half miles, makes a third option.
  2. Keep the first meeting short and public. One drink somewhere busy is enough to tell whether the spark is there, and either of you can call it a night without any fuss.
  3. Say what you want early. Your match suggestions take account of how far apart you are, your age range and what each of you is after, so a straight answer about yours saves a wasted evening. Our hookup safety tips are worth five minutes before you head out.
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