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Casual sex for adults in Wycombe, the Wye valley and the Chiltern towns around it.
Prove the jokes wrong in High Wycombe
Radio comedy and TV drama have both cast High Wycombe as the town where nothing much happens. The numbers disagree. Its built-up area had about 83,500 people at the 2021 census, which makes it the biggest town in Buckinghamshire, strung along the valley of the River Wye with the Chiltern Hills all around. Add the places the 2011 census grouped with it, Hazlemere, Tylers Green, Bourne End and Flackwell Heath among them, and the wider urban area tops 130,000.
There has been a market on the High Street since at least the Middle Ages, and it still runs on Tuesdays, Fridays and Saturdays. The main campus of Bucks New University sits right in the town centre, and London is only 29 miles away. So if sex in High Wycombe is what brought you here, the town is big enough to find it on its own and close enough to the capital to widen the search when you want to.
Easy first hellos in the town centre
The Pepper Pot
The little octagonal Cornmarket faces the colonnaded Guildhall at the end of the High Street. Nobody can miss it, which makes it a perfect meeting point.
Market days
Tuesday, Friday or Saturday, the stalls fill a pedestrianised street of 18th and 19th century buildings. A daytime meet here is relaxed and very public.
Two shopping centres
The Eden Centre runs from the High Street under the Abbey Way flyover; the Chilterns Centre sits between Queen's Square and Frogmoor.
A swim instead
The leisure centre near Handy Cross has an Olympic-size pool, and the pool at Hollywell Mead in Rye Park is open again. Daring for a first date, but nobody forgets it.
Start somewhere open like these, move on together only when it feels right, and see our safety page for blocking and reporting.
Under-35s lead the way around High Wycombe
More than half of our members within 25 miles of High Wycombe are under 35. Three in ten are 18 to 24 and just over a quarter are 25 to 34; the 35 to 44s come to a little under a quarter, and the over-45s to about a fifth. Women account for slightly under three in ten.
That 25-mile circle runs from Oxford in the west to Hampstead in north London, taking in Luton, London Colney and Watford to the north-east and east, Uxbridge and Hounslow to the south-east, and Camberley to the south.
Ages of our members within 25 miles of High Wycombe, today.
More to choose from just over the hills
Two towns are barely four miles away: Marlow to the south and Beaconsfield to the east. Amersham is about six miles north-east and Maidenhead eight to the south, and Princes Risborough, Chesham, Wendover and Henley-on-Thames all fall within ten. Further afield, Aylesbury is 13 miles off, Reading 15 and Oxford 23. With VIP you can filter by city and distance, which helps when the person you like lives in the next valley.
Wycombe questions, quick answers
Is High Wycombe really that dull?
Not if you know where to look. It is the biggest town in Buckinghamshire, with a market three days a week, a university campus in the centre and two shopping centres. Our members within 25 miles reach all the way from Oxford to north London.
Can I look for gay hookups in High Wycombe?
Yes. You choose the gender you want to meet, and your daily match suggestions follow it while weighing up distance. VIP adds search filters for what people are open to.
Can I meet someone from London?
Easily. Central London is about 29 miles away, and our members within 25 miles of High Wycombe already include people in Uxbridge, Hounslow and Hampstead.
Hookups near High Wycombe
- Marlow hookups
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- Amersham hookups
- Maidenhead hookups
- Princes Risborough hookups
- Chesham hookups
- Wendover hookups
- Henley-on-Thames hookups
Every town we cover is on the locations page, and the near me page explains how members find each other close to home.