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How to ask someone to hook up

ed — Mon, 20 Jun 2022 22:58:44 +0000

Welcome hook-ups, the website where we help you find someone for adult dating and no-nonsense fun. The site is a great place to filter profiles and meeting people for a friends with benefits relationship, a one night stand or just an open ended hook-up with no pressure as to where that goes. In this article I would like to talk about how you might progress that first meeting into something more.

So, you meet someone, either in person or online. You like them enough that you want to hook up with them… but now you don’t know what to do next. You want to ask them to hook up with you, but you don’t know how to do it. You could call them, but you are not sure what you would say. You decide text is better, it gives you time to craft the message before sending it, but you have the same problem. How should you ask someone to hook up with you?

The direct approach

If you are feeling bold, you have met the person before or you know that the direct approach will land well with the target of the hook up request, then going direct is a strong choice. There is no messing about, it is straight to the point and efficient, and it is a great way to get someone in the bedroom fast. If you can pull it off, you come across as super alpha when you do it. Texts can include “Let’s kiss, come over at 8pm” though to “Alert! Alert! Emergency booty call! How quick can you get here?!?” or something equally fun.

Plausible deniability

If you do not have that relationship with the person yet, a safer option is to give them plausible deniability as to why they are coming over when inviting them. You know you are inviting them over for sex, they know you are inviting them over for sex, but you don’t have to discuss it by text! Invite them over for dinner, lunch, a coffee, to watch a movie or meet your dog or fish if you have any. Any excuse to get them to yours. The kissing can come naturally once you are in the same room in a private place where it can take place, all you need to do is give them excuse. The nice thing about this is if they say no, they are no saying no to your offer of a hook up, but saying no to meeting your cat, so you can try again another time.

Whichever you chose, good luck!

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Have a summer hook up!

ed — Wed, 08 Aug 2018 10:38:18 +0000

The summer is here, and now is the perfect time to have a hook up. With the long days, everyone has that extra amount of time and energy to take advantage of, and what better way to use that time than by finding someone to have sex with? There are several reasons that you should do this.

Hooking up is healthy

Firstly, it is really good for you. It burns calories, has been proven to increase mental and physical well-being, and frankly is one of the most pleasurable things that you can do as a human. Surprisingly, despite being one of the most enjoyable things you can do, it also remains free! So meeting someone and having a little fun with them is always a good thing, and whilst turning that friend into a “friends with benefits” can be daunting, they will thank you for it on the other side.

Sex is good for both of you

When you have a hook up, you really are doing the other person a favour. They want to have sex just as much as you do, so by hooking up, you are helping them to get what they want as much as you are getting what you want. If a hook up opportunity presents itself, you should generally take it.

The summer makes you hornier

Did you know that melatonin can block sex hormones and reduce your libido? Melatonin is what the body produces in order to regulate your body clock. It tells you when it is time to be awake and when it is time to be asleep. All the sunshine reduces the amount of melatonin in your system, which means that in the summer, everyone is that little bit more open to hooking up with everyone else! People want to meet someone, everyone hornier and ready for sex. Help them out by giving it to them.

There is eye candy everywhere

Since the heat makes everyone wear less clothing, it feels like there is eye candy everywhere. It sometimes feels like the summer makes all the beautiful people come out. They have always been there, they are simply no longer hidden behind layers of clothing. This visually triggers everyone to want to hook up more, as the brain recognises that now is the time to find a mate, and, well, mate!

So have a summer hook up! It only comes once a year, the best thing to do is to enjoy it whilst it is here.

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Hooking up on a train

ed — Thu, 02 Aug 2018 12:44:05 +0000

There are many obvious places to try and hook up. Most people go to bars, pubs or anywhere there is alcohol being served. These venues provide a space where there is a general understanding that people are open to meeting someone, to a hook up. Clubs are another good space to find an easy and quick hook up, there is not even any need to speak as no one can hear you anyway! You just do it all with the body language and allow your desire and lust to express themselves. There are also less usual places where one can hook up, places that can be as good or even better than the traditional venues. One of these places is a train. For this article I am going to talk about hooking up on a train.

Why a train hook up is the perfect one

We are all time starved. We lead busy lives where we rarely have the space or time to half the things that we want to do, so making time to meet someone can be tricky… but with a train, it is NET time. No Extra Time. You are already doing something, you ae traveling from A to B. There is nothing more you can do to make that journey go faster, but what you can do is use that “free” time to hit on someone instead.

You have a captive audience. They are also not going anywhere… well there are going somewhere as they are on a train, but you know what I mean! They have nothing else that they can be doing, so talking to you is easy, it costs them nothing.

They are likely bored. How interesting you are is always by comparison. No matter how interesting you are, if the person's favourite rock star walks past, they will, by comparison, find you really boring in that moment compared with the rock star. The train gives you the reverse situation. They are probably bored, which means that anything you do makes you instantly more interesting than the doing at that time. You can be extremely relaxed, there is no need to grab attention or try and work hard to hold their focus, you will likely have it as the alternative is staring out the window wondering when the journey will be over.

So next time you are on a train, rather than waste time, why not sit near someone who looks fun, and strike up a conversation? You never know where it might lead you to!

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