Everyone Is secretly looking for a hook up… so just ask

ed — Thu, 19 Apr 2018 07:45:20 +0000

You know the easiest way to hook up with someone? Just ask them. You think I am joking right? I mean being so bold as to ask them outright if they want to have sex is crazy, right? Or is it? Let me talk you through the logic of it, and see if I can bring you around to my way of thinking.

Sex is great

Sex is great. There is nothing more fun, pleasing and exciting than sex. We all want it, and we are all better off for it. Hooking up with someone releases all sorts of happy hormones, it released stress, it is a great physical work out, and it makes you a better person to be around. There are all the ups, and so few downs.

Everyone wants to hook up

Secretly, everyone wants to be hooking up. They want to have someone drag them back to their cave, and if they don’t, it is because they want to do the dragging! They want to have sex not only on an emotional level, a mental level, but also a biological level. It is hard coded into people, they have no choice about the matter! They really want to have sex, be they a man or a woman.

You are offering them what they want

Say you are really hungry. It is lunchtime, and a sandwich guy with a trolley comes over and offers to sell you your lunch. You are going to be grateful for him for hooking you up, and happy that he took your money. It is not a hard sale, in fact he is doing you a favour. The same is true for sex. If you accept that everyone wants to be having sex, if they do not have a hookup waiting for them at home, they are going be really glad that someone has offered them an alternative! Seriously! You are helping them out, and your reward for your kindness is that you also get to be having the sex too! It is really good.

All you have to do is ask

So all the sandwich guy had to do was ask, was offer you the sandwich, and you said yes. This is the same… but note the timing. He asked you at lunchtime, when you were hungry. You need to ask people at the right time, when they are horney. If they are not horney, flirt with them and make them horney first. Then ask. You will be surprised how far this gets you.

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Music to have sex to like a Boss

ed — Fri, 30 Jun 2017 08:16:11 +0000

We soundtrack our lives. We do this mentally in our heads sometimes without thinking about it, but for the most part it is done for us physically in the world itself. When you walk into a bar or a pub, you are partly going for the “atmosphere” – and the music that is playing in the background is a key part of this. A portion of what makes a romantic restaurant “romantic” is the music that is playing in the background. You may not want to be hearing “3 times a lady” when you are out clubbing – but in a romantic restaurant, it is perfect.

Where this came from

Films and television are responsible for this. Before the technology of being able to remotely play music was around, the soundtrack to our lives was environmental. The sounds of the landscape, the forests or fields (depending on where you are), or the back ground of the cities. Films have changed all of this, Music emotes and moves people, so the addition of it can make you feel more in the moment, more alive, and more emotionally engaged with whatever you are doing.
So how does this relate to your next hookup?

Good sex is emotional – spike that emotion with music

If great sex is emotional, you can use music to spike that emotion. You might already be doing it without thinking about it, and if you are that’s great, coming to a better conscious understanding of it will help you to hone it. There are several avenues you can go down.

Go super romantic

This is a great beginner option. You can’t go wrong with a Phil Colllins’ “Wonderful Tonight” or Chris De Burgh’s “Lady In Red”. They may not be your favorite tunes, but here they can be really powerful.

Go Romantic feel – with a secret humorous twist

Often the lyrics of a song that we are listening to blends out and we do not hear the words. This means that they can be singing about anything, as long as musically it is romantic, no one will notice. For this I would go to bands like the Isley Brothers, super soulful and super sexy. There is a tune called “Hey hey, lets make a baby” that I once found on an album called “Aphrodisiac” which I highly recommend. There are a couple of Weird Al Yankovitch songs that also are great contenders.

Go All Out Silly – perfect for a first time hook up

If you want to go all out silly this can be really fun. Want to have sex like a total boss? Once you are done, immediately put on “I just had sex” by Akon and Lonely Island and forever will you join the ranks of the true sexual alpha males.

Go for music you like

This is the best option. If you like it, and they like it, you will be into it.

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Everyone Is secretly looking for a hook up… so just ask

Music to have sex to like a Boss