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The importance of sound when hooking up

ed — Sat, 24 Dec 2022 12:33:37 +0000

When it comes to making love, whether that is with your hook up from the same night, a regular hook up, a friends with benefit or a regular established fuck buddy, it is a whole experience that engages all the senses. Taste, touch, sight, smell and sound. Much of this is created by the act of having sex itself. When you hook up with someone, the touch and the taste elements are obvious and need no describing here! Sight is a more interesting one as some people like to have the lights turned off, or at the least, they like to have the lights turned right down impairing the clarity of the visual input that they are receiving. This can sometimes be helpful if it is just a random one off hook up with someone that you don’t really fancy that much visually, as you can then concentrate on the other elements. Sound is not something that we often think about, but as a sense it is actually a really important one, and one that can make a big difference to your sexual experience.

Sound that already exists

There are some sounds that already exist within the confines of making love. The sounds of the persons skin moving against your own, their slight moans or reactions as you touch and stimulate them, or as they do so to you. The things that you whisper into each other’s ears, be that dirty talk, other words or sentences or even just the sound of their breath moving over you (for that is still a very specific sound that can trigger very specific body reactions from you). All of those make up the orchestral music that is the love making session, and it is a key component to your experience and the experience of the person you hooked up with.

Changing or adding to this

You always have the option to add to it, to craft it, or to alter it. Altering it using the same ingredients is easy. Try saying different things or being more or less expressive. If you want to cut sound entirely (which is an active choice) that can work! Or cut it from one side only, a (consensual) gag in play can work wonders!

If you want to add more to this, consider using music. Soundtracks are a great way to mix things up!

So remember how important sound is when you are making love, and have fun with it.

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How to hook up in the winter months

ed — Sun, 14 Nov 2021 21:58:29 +0000

Welcome to hook ups, the place where we help like-minded individuals find each other for adult dating and no strings attached fun. Sadly, the summer months are now passing and fading into distant memories. The temperature is dropping, the leaves are falling off the trees and nature is preparing to hunker down for the winter ready to come back out to play when things warm up again. For us humans, there is a tendency to do the same. As things get colder, we want to go out and interact with other people less, we spend more time in the house and generally it takes more to motivate us to come out “and play” as it were. Previously in the summer months we ay easily have agreed to meet up after work for a drink. Once the winter comes in, we are less likely to say yes to those invitations (and we are also less likely to make those invitations in the first place too!). So, with people staying in a lot more, does this mean it is not possible to hook up in during the winter months? Not at all! People hook up all the time and all year around. It remains true that there are certain times in the year where there are more people that are open to approach, but in reality, there are opportunities to hook up 365 days of the year, you just have to keep your eyes open. So how can you hook up in the winter months? Allow me to give you some help.

Say yes

When you get invited to go for a drink after work or to meet up somewhere, say yes. Recognise that at this time of year it is easier to say no. When someone invites you out at 7pm in the summer it is still sunny and lovely outside, but when they do so now it will already be dark and uninviting. If you can recognise that the time on the clock is the same, it will help you to overcome the extra mental barrier being created by the winter and you will be more likely to say yes and go out.

Take action

Be an instigator of action. Now that invitations to do things have slowed down, be the person who generates the fun. It can be much easier than you might otherwise think! Inviting people to come for a drink after work takes initiative but very little else. Doing this will not only ensure that you are still going out, but also put you in a “leader” position within the group, which will add to your perceived attractiveness levels when you are meeting people of the opposite sex.

Dress warm!

This may sound obvious, but by dressing warm you are more likely to go out! So adjust your wardrobe and be ready for the weather.

So, make a few changes and get out there. There are people that want to hook up with you as much as you want to hook up with them, all you have to do is meet them. So get out there and go for it!

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Hook-up this winter and have great winter sex

ed — Wed, 11 Dec 2019 22:49:24 +0000

When it comes to having a hook up, you may think that the best time to do it is in the summer. There is some truth to this. In the summer everyone is scantily clad. There is a lot of skin on show. The heat and the sun puts everyone in a good mood, making it easier to speak to people and find a hook up. The density of people looking for a hook up in the summer months is higher than that of the winter months, there is no denying that. However, just because the summer is a great time to hook up, does not mean that the winter is not also a great time to hook up. The conditions are different, certainly, but that does not mean that they are poor! There are loads of ways to hook up in the winter. With New Years coming in, there are a lot of people that are feeling the lack of someone to kiss when the clock strikes midnight. This drives people who are single to really be on the lookout for someone that can help them change that, even if that change is on a temporary “no strings attached” basis. So you can hook up.

When you do hook up, there are loads of ways of taking advantage of the winter to have mind-blowing winter sex. This comes only once a year, so you really ought to do it. So, here are some top tips on how you can make sure you have great winter sex once you have hooked up.

Embrace the Christmas look!

Whether you like Christmas or not, there are lots of sexy things you can do. Santa based lingerie is a fabulous way of looking sexy if you are a woman, or helping your woman turn you on if you are a man. So buy your hook up some sexy red underwear, then enjoy ripping them off her!

Get Christmas Kinky

Christmas is a great time to have fun and explore. IF you have never played before, giving someone a pair of fluffy lined Christmas cuffs will allow you to then use them on her. So get involved whilst you can.

Wear Socks!

Okay, this doesn’t sound sexy at all… BUT… wearing socks is a great way to stay warm when in bed. Staying warm will keep you focused on the sex in the moment and ensure that you both have a better time. If you make a game of it, you can both wear socks and neither of you will judge the other for doing it… but you both will be super warm!!

So enjoy your Christmas, and enjoy your chance to have proper Christmas sex!

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