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ed — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 23:11:06 +0000

Valentine's day happens each February, and each year people are neatly divided into two camps. There are the people that have dates, and the people that don’t. The date may be a first date, a hook up, a friends with benefits, or with someone you have been with for years. Regardless, you are in the “I have a date” camp. Most of these people are pretty happy on valentines. They have someone to spend the evening with, and they are almost certainly going to get laid. Sex is nearly guaranteed on valentines day for those with a date. It is not 100%, but it is close. For those without, it is a different story. The people with no date are subjected to a strong reminder that they do not have one. Usually, a day without a date is just a day when you are doing something else. We can’t be hooking up every day, we would never get anything done. However, on valentines day there is an expectation that you have a date, so suddenly if you do not have a date there is something wrong with you. This does have some beneficial side effects for those of us looking to hook up.

The reminder makes people without sexual partners insecure about not having a sexual partner. For that date, it no longer becomes a choice but the side of effect of an inability to obtain one. This increases the desire to have a hook up across the board.

Valentine's day itself is where this is felt most strongly. However, most people do not go out on valentines day to hook up in the best of times. With the global coronavirus pandemic going on, a lot of people just aren’t going out at all! So following valentines day, there is a “hang over” of this feeling. People are more aware of the lack of a hook up more than usual. This means that the weeks following valentines day are a great time to hook up. People are more open to being approached and spoken to. They want to be approached and picked up.

So if you are looking to hook up, now is a great time to make it happen. Take some action (it can be online, it doesn’t have to be in person) and make some connections. You never know where it will lead, but it may well lead to the bedroom and possibly even a regular hook up you can booty call!

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Hook up, because the best relationships start with sex

ed — Thu, 09 May 2019 16:06:21 +0000

All relationships start somewhere. The initial meeting predominantly begins online these days, though they can also start in a bar, at a party, a random hook up, or even walking down the street where you bump into someone. They usually then progress to something else… and if you fancy the person this can often be a number of dates, dinners, outings and other courting activities in order to form a connection and relationship. Many relationships do start casually in this way… but I am here to argue that the best relationships start with sex at a very early point. Keep reading and I will tell you why starting with a hookup is the best way to start a relationship.

Long term relationships are all about compromise. The only way to make them last is for both parties to give a little, because no two people agree about everything all of the time. It simply does not happen that way. You compromise on Holidays, or where you go to have dinner, or when you have two events clash which one you go to. All of these compromises are acceptable in a way, because you can always make up for them. If you did not go on the holiday of choice with your partner, that is okay, maybe you can make up for it and go with your mates instead. If you didn’t go to the place for dinner this time, you go another time. If you could not attend your good friends birthday you can always make it up to them by taking them somewhere else for an evening. You can not do this with sex.

My big argument why early sex is important, is there is no option of making it up elsewhere. Let us say you began in a slower to sex way. You did 5-6 dinner dates called, texted, and by the time you had sex you were emotionally committed to the other person. You have sex… and it is a giant fail. It is just not that great. They are not into the same thing in the bedroom as you. Now it is too late. You have to ask yourself, are you really willing to give up this kind, lovely person with whom you have spent loads of time and energy? Or are you going to compromise on the sex? Many people compromise on the sex… and then you are screwed. If you are in a monogamous relationship, you can not make it up elsewhere. You can nor just go and sleep with your mates or throw money at it. You are now stuck with someone with whom the sex sucks. The longer you are together the harder it would be to leave.

Nip this issue in the bud! If you sleep with someone by hooking up with them early, then you can find out if you are sexually compatible. If you are not, you say goodbye with no hard feelings and move on before the hypnosis of love kicks in. Having a sequence of fuck buddies is a great way to get to a girlfriend!

So start with a hook up, for your own sake.

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How to hook up on a train

ed — Tue, 20 Feb 2018 09:26:29 +0000

There are many place that you can find a good hook up. There is a standard default position: if you are single, you are always open to meeting someone. You may not be looking for it at the time, you may not find what you are looking for when it approaches you, you may not be in the perfect mood, dress, situation, mindspace… but whether you like it or not, you are always open. That also means that everyone else is also open to meeting someone, all the time. If you are looking for a hookup, then remember that there is no place that is off limits, no time that is banned, no social fo pa that you can make. You have to just go for it.

Why non-traditional places are better to hook up in!

When you are looking for a hookup, the environments that usually spring to mind are pubs, bars, clubs, house parties etc. There is nothing wrong with these places, other people are also actively looking to hook up, so there is action on both sides. However, there is also competition in play here. There are other people that, like it or not, are your rivals. You are going to be compared to them, held up against them in the sexual market place. To be blunt, there is always someone that is going to better looking that you, its just a case of numbers!
Where non-traditional places come into their own, is that you are not being compared to anyone. By talking to the person in the first place you have already set yourself apart from the crowd, you have displayed huge confidence and self assured nature, which are extremely attractive qualities! So what are the other advantages?

You are not doing anything else. This is NET time – no extra time. Since you are just killing time, you may as well use it to talk to the pretty lady!
They are not doing anything else – they may as well use it to talk to the confident and self assured person who has just started talking to them
You are interesting! Why? Because you are being compared to the boredom of being on a train. This means nearly anything you do is going to be more interesting that the alternative! Cash back!

Trains are excellent places to hook up- so next time you see someone you like, take action, it is an excellent place to find a friend with benefits!

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Hook up this winter

ed — Thu, 02 Nov 2017 22:08:54 +0000

The last of the summer is bleeding away, and we are looking at finally entering the winter months! With all the crazy weather in the UK, we had one last moment of all the girls out in short skirts and the guys out with their tops off. The hurricane that blew the warm weather across to England was a final bonus moment of sexy summer before the light went out… but fear not! All is not lost! Winter brings with it all sorts of opportunities to get laid that summer would never be able to furnish you with! So here are some top winter tips on how to hook up. Whether you are looking for a no strings attached relationship, a quick one night stand, or you just don’t know, hook ups are here to help.

Brrr… its cold! Time to snuggle for warmth!

The thing that people want more than anything else on a cold winter’s day, is a nice warm hug! As humans, we are driven by instinct for the basics like any other member of the animal kingdom. We want food, warmth and procreation. In the cold winter months to come, if you can offer someone a little of all three you are a prize win! Getting naked when it is cold is only a bad thing if there is no one there to keep you warm. Why not lend a helping hand or two?

Early darkness means you can go out early

When you meet a potential sexual partner, there is something that feels more like a date or a hook up if it is dark. In the summer this means meeting late, or having to stay out till late. Now that the clocks have changed, you can meet someone straight after work, hit a pub with candles on the tables, and because you start the date earlier, you can be dragging them back to yours by 9pm! The earlier you start the more time that you will have to enjoy yourself.

Long evenings at home

Going out is all well and good – but it is much harder to sleep with someone when you are in public. That is not to say you can’t, and for some people this in itself can be a fun part of the sex – having it in a public place! Undeniably it is logistically easier to have sex in private, and if you are spending evenings snuggled up at home, or doing things around the house, it is much easier to have sex, especially spontaneous sex!

The winter brings with a whole host of hook up opportunities, so good luck and have fun with them!

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Have you got the moves to hook up? Dance your way to sex!

ed — Tue, 08 Aug 2017 16:15:51 +0000

Sex is amazing, and everyone both wants it, and ought to be having it. Sex makes people happier, increases their self esteem and sense of self worth, it gives them the all important human contact that is necessary for a stable and fulfilled life, and it is also unbelievable fun! There is nothing as fun as sex, and the most amazing part is that it is free. Sex is the biggest high, but you don’t have to pay a penny for it (though you can of course choose to if you wish to). So how can you find a hook up or a fuck buddy? Have you thought about dancing your way to sex?

A great way to meet people

The first step to any hook up is to meet the person in the first place. This can be done in many ways, online being the primary way that people are finding their no strings attached relationships these days. Being able to meet a mass of the opposite sex quickly so that you have a higher chance of meeting someone compatible is key to the hook up. Online provides this well, as does a dance class!
Joining a dance class is a great way to quickly meet a ton of people, especially women. I went to a dance class yesterday, and I was literally the only man in the class. It was phenomenal! At that point there was just no competition! So the first thing dancing does is give you that exposure to a lot of people, so that you can meet someone.

It forces physical contact, so you don’t have to initiate

Physical contact is imperative if you want to hook up with someone. The early stages of flirting always involve the brush of the hand, the touch of the shoulder. Dancing means that you have this contact during the class as part of the process. You don’t have to initiate it, it just happens!

Dancing is sexy

Most girls have a film like dirty dancing or Step Up etc that they think is amazing... and this means that dancing feels sexy. When you dance with a girl, it is the beginning of the physical courtship ritual, as ancient as humans.

Dance class will make you good

If you are a good dancer, people will also presume that you are good in bed. If you are good with your body, physically in control and co-ordinated, and of a certain fitness level, you are extremely attractive to the opposite sex. A dance class or dancing gives you a chance to show this off, to allow other people to see this in you, giving you a chance to hook up

So if you are looking for a hook up, why not join a dance class and see if you can find waltz your way into someone’s bed!

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